He finally proposed, and he asked me how I felt. He replied, 'This is a big commitment My BIL actually got a lot of support after breaking it off. Even the minister who was supposed to marry them told them that she didn't think they should get married.
They are both now married to other people. I thought we both wanted the same thing in the end Divorced in Eleven almost 12 years, man β one-third of my life! I spent days deep cleaning it out and packing up their remaining things for our 'fresh start. I packed up all my things immediately and called my dad to tell him that I was finally done with this man.
When he saw me waiting with my things packed, he threw my bags out of the house. I left, but months later, still reconnected with him. I realized that I had outgrown this mistake and finally cut him off for good.
I found out nine months later that he died in a car accident from driving under the influence and crashing into a tractor-trailer that was pulled over on the highway due to a flat tire.
I messaged the baby mama and asked if I could go to the funeral. She said yes, and we cried together there. I told her that it was time for her to finally be free and focus on herself. I think about her often. A couple of years later, she broke off their relationship and married someone else.
