November 3. Fundamentals , Japan Game. I had no idea how to go about picking up girls in Japan when I first arrived. What follows is a guide on picking up girls in Japan — nothing more, nothing less. It will help you achieve whatever your goals are — from getting laid in Japan for the first time, building a massive harem, or just getting a Japanese girlfriend.
This is the resource I wish I had when I first started. Often, one date is all you get — regardless of whether it went well or not. Japanese women are NOT strangers to sex, nor are they shy, virtuous creatures which demand lots of restraint. Imagining you will arrive on these shores as a masculine god and blow away the competition offered by seemingly timid and sexually ambivalent Japanese men is simply a delusion.
As a major metropolis where there is despite what you may have heard no shortage of available, successful, sexually aggressive Japanese men, the most attractive women — the cream of the crop — are overflowing with suitable dating matches. Western pickup materials like RSD also often miss the mark when it comes to picking up girls in Japan, giving misleading teachings which actually HURT you more than help you. While much of their mindset advice can be on point, some technical applications — while helpful in the West — are actually harmful if applied directly in Japan.
Time is your friend. The more time you spend with a girl, the higher your chances are. Taking your time more often than not will end up with the girl fading herself out or abruptly stopping contact without explanation. Instead, gun for the lay and add value after the fact to keep them around. Hot, high quality girls will rarely, if ever, stop for you if you get in their way or upon the open. Instead, walk with them. Waiting until the club closes to pull the girl home.
Instead, pull hard before the club closes. Touching the girl quickly and often will usually put her on the defensive. Personal space bubbles are smaller in Japan, but more rigid. There is no hugging culture, and body contact is minimal, even among friends and family. Save your overt kino escalation for when you are isolated with the girl. While Japanese women are no strangers to sexuality, most people speak far less about sex to strangers in Japan.
