Couples and Relationships 3 comments. My husband picks fights with me all the time! The cycle of conflict between you and your husband can be all consuming. Many times it really feels like there is no reason for it.
Like he just wants to fight. Or wants to win. After all, what happened to make love not war? You try to solve something one way and it may seem like it worked but then another issue popped up. Why does he care anyways? The reality is that many couples get caught up in this cycle.
Fights are started and when you ask yourself what it was really about you stumble to find the answer. Unhappy with himself? Unhappy in the marriage? You come home from a long day of work and your husband is relaxing on the couch looking through the mail.
You drop off all your stuff on the couch and the first comment comes. You ask about his day. He responds with a few words, not too much. Then you walk over to see what you can pull out of the fridge for dinner. He then screams across the house asking about a credit card charge. You roll your eyes because this is the same old same old. You decide to keep your cool and answer the question.
C arrying on with preparing dinner. You take out everything that you want to prepare and he walks into the kitchen. We had that two days ago! You snap. Does this sound familiar? The truth is that many couples struggle with this type of scenario. Deep down you feel the pain of being in this type of cycle with your husband. And you want and NEED it to get better. Is he stressed out with work?
