A devastated woman has taken to the internet to share her heartbreak after discovering her boyfriend of three years had been engaging in flirtatious online chats with other women - and then cruelly admitted he isn't physically attracted to her. The year-old woman explained the shocking moment she found messages between her partner and other women while using her iPad, which he often borrows. He was basically praising her looks,' she revealed on Reddit. As she dug deeper, she discovered he was engaging in similar chats with multiple women, leaving her 'heartbroken'.
We usually reach a solution easily when there's conflict and that's something we both love about our dynamic. I guess it could be the shock of "being caught", but he screamed that he likes what he sees and he isn't physically attracted to me,' she wrote.
For the woman, who is recovering from an eating disorder, the admission was a crushing blow. The year-old woman explained the shocking moment she found messages between her partner and other women while using her iPad [mock up message]. It's all confusing. I feel like someone has thrown a pie in my face. She described how her boyfriend attempted to backtrack, insisting that he loves her, finds her beautiful, and wants her to 'be the best version of [herself] for [herself].
He dismissed the flirtatious messages as harmless and described the women as mere 'eye candy'. But the damage was already done, and his attempts to repair it did little to soothe her feelings. The couple, who share a home and even raise a dog and fish together, have been navigating a tense and awkward atmosphere since the incident. She described her discomfort, writing, 'I don't want him to look at me too long.
I roll all the way over to my side of the bed at night. I don't want any hugs, kisses, PDA - nothing. And usually, we're all over each other. As she dug deeper, she discovered he was engaging in similar flirtatious chats with multiple women, leaving her 'heartbroken'. She also revealed her fear of slipping back into disordered eating habits as she grapples with the emotional fallout. The emotional post has sparked a wave of support, with many urging her to prioritise her well-being and consider whether the relationship is worth salvaging.
