How do normal people go about finding casual sex? June 20, AM Subscribe How do normal people go about finding casual sex? For someone who thinks that taking advantage of drunk girls in clubs is immoral and adult match-making websites are scams or dangerous, is there any outlet to meet nice albeit frisky! I'm an easy-going and friendly guy, but I have no idea how to broach the topic with single female friends, lest I scare them or have them consider me a deviant!
How do I go about meeting or finding friendly, open-minded people who are open to the idea of casual but fully consensual, not alcohol-fuelled sex? I'm not averse to the idea of developing friendships with such open-minded people, but I have no idea regarding the etiquette involved. I'm a young, male university student in Melbourne, Australia who spends way too much time pontificating on societal hang-ups, if that matters.
Taking advantage of drunk girls in clubs is immoral, but striking up a conversation with a woman in a bar or club is not. You're overthinking this. Go out and talk to women. Some of them will like you. Some will not. Some will want to go home with you. You've kind of ruled out the two main ways casual sex happens.
A drink or two doesn't mean sloppy drunk- we call it a social lubricant for a reason. But if you absolutely require teetotaler casual sex, put an ad in your local alt weekly ISO casual encounters. It's a numbers game. Pure and simple. Go to a bar and chat them up. What makes you think "adult match-making websites are scams or dangerous"?
In my dating days, I met many fine women via such sites, and had sex with several of them. I was never scammed nor endangered. In my experience it's rarely casual sex for very long if it's with one of your friends. Someone usually develops feelings for the other and suddenly "casual" is out the window.
