Sexual development starts at birth. It includes physical changes like puberty , the attitudes and beliefs children develop about sex and sexuality, and their sexual behaviour. Your child might behave in these ways because it feels good. Open and honest talk about sex, bodies and relationships lays the groundwork for future talks about sexual development, respectful relationships and sexuality.
You can use sexual behaviour as an opportunity to help your child learn. The key is listening, talking and answering questions openly, honestly and in a way your child can understand. At this age, you could ask your child if they have any questions about bodies and relationships.
Then you could talk with your child about what behaviour is OK in different situations. You and your child could also read books together about bodies, relationships, puberty and personal safety. If you want your child to stop sexual behaviour , calmly suggest another activity. You could talk to your child later about what behaviour is OK in your home and what behaviour is OK in front of other children, parents or teachers. And sometimes sexual behaviour in children at this age is harmful to themselves or others.
Harmful sexual behaviour can range from concerning to serious and extreme. Children aged years might behave in sexually harmful ways for many reasons. For example, it might happen because they:. Children who have learning difficulties and disorders or difficulties with impulse control, social skills or rules can also be more vulnerable to engaging in harmful sexual behaviour.
A GP is a good place to start. Harmful sexual behaviour in children can be distressing. You can get support by contacting helplines and specialist services. Skip to content Skip to navigation. About sexual development and behaviour at years Sexual development starts at birth.
