When you think of BDSM and dominatrices, what images does your mind conjure: black leather, latex, hot wax, humiliation? Maybe you draw a blank because this realm lies beyond your purview or direct experience of sexuality, sensuality, and relationships.
Eva and Miriam in Cirsi. Like most sex work, this topic remains largely shrouded in mystery, assumption, and intrigue. Eva Oh, our new favorite whip-smart, business-savvy, badass dominatrix had a few of her own preconceptions before embarking on a professional BDSM journey in During her 13 years in this world, she evolved from an apt pupil doing eight sessions a day to a high-demand professional and sought-after consultant offering four sessions a month.
These days she is adding podcaster, social-media influencer, and published author to the list. Eva did not set out for a lifelong career in this line of business yes, she will confirm, sex work is work. Like most of her life choices, it developed organically and she went with the flow.
Now, she navigates success, responsibility, mentorship, and massive demand for her talent, support, and expertise with her trademark fluidity and lack of judgment.
Eva recently took time out of her jet-setting schedule to pull back the curtain and provide a peek into her life as a dom. And it is perhaps surprisingly compassionate, vulnerable, and human—and so much more in ways that may subvert expectations of the uninitiated. Eva and Miriam in Onyx. Thistle and Spire loves a quick and dirty background. Can you tell us how you got into this line of work?
