Raya, a dating app designed to be deliberately exclusive, had long held a strong allure for me. I heard it was how Amy Schumer met one of her boyfriends, and everyone I knew on it seemed to be matching with Pete Davidson.
Ultimately, I learned that celebrity dating just isn't for me spoiler: I never met a celebrity. Raya describes itself as a " private, membership-based social network. To get access to it, you have to be invited by a friend and then have your profile approved by the app via them scanning your social media. Despite its networking theme, everyone I know on the app uses and describes it as a dating app.
Still, I would come to learn that the exclusivity, as well as the emphasis on professional networking, has the potential to make Raya a little less fun and flirty and a little more business casual. I was so excited when Raya approved my profile. I'd heard so much about it from friends, and I desperately craved the invite.
In my first few months as a Raya app user, I didn't actually use it to go on dates. Raya doesn't let you screenshot seriously, get over yourself, Raya , so I couldn't keep my friends updated on my convos on the app. Other than that, it's similar to other dating apps. You write a short bio, and then if two people like each other, you get to chat. Also, matches expire after 10 days, which felt like enough time. I use Bumble too, but those matches expire after 24 hours, which feels too fast.
Overall, I found that by far the best part of Raya was tweeting about Raya , and I was able to do this anyway, dating or not. Once I got to LA, I decided to buckle down and find someone to go on a date with.
