Top Ten Cookies. No really. Go get a job. Jobs in the Straight World tend to be teeming with undercover gays. If you see a printer jam, wait approx 2 minutes and most likely a gay lady will arrive to fix.
Fit for a Femme : Hang out where your friends work, if applicable. Someone I know just met a pretty thing to nibble on that way recently. Gay girls are fairly serious about supporting their local gay musicians, and so go check out a few shows.
I always find it easiest to make friends with the musicians themselves because you already have a reason to strike up a conversation with them: to tell them that you enjoyed their show. Just keep showing up. Intern Hot Laura : Do you have a bike co-op in your city? I bet you do, and I bet there are a bunch of cute girls running around with bike grease on their noses. Crystal: Go to the roller derby. All of the queer girls are at the roller derby. All of them. Saddle up beside a group of cute girls in the suicide seats where all the serious fans sit and ask them to explain the rules to you.
We have cited the internet multiple times as the best way to meet other gays. We hear OKCupid is a thing , also. Intern Emily : Find someone on autostraddle who lives near you. Give them your email. Go for a walk. Walks are free. The point of this is: craigslist could be a thing? The key to it being non-intimidating was that we both earnestly wanted new friends, yannow?
Laneia : Find a queer girl who writes a blog with a lot of feelings and send her emails about your feelings. Read books. When the queer girl with a blog starts an online magazine, help her. Accost people on gchat. When the queer girl with a blog has parties and introduces you to her friends, be really nice to them and say things with your mouth and eyes.
