So it should come as no surprise that trying out new positions can help your orgasms, too. She recommends thinking about what makes receiving oral so appealing to you, specifically: Do you enjoy the feeling of relaxing and letting go, or do you prefer feeling empowered and in control? After all, over 36 percent of women with vulvas say that they need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. In need of some inspo? Ahead, 12 oral sex positions to add to your sexual menu, according to sex therapists.
From here, the giver can kneel or lie down in front of their genitalsβwhichever feels more comfortable and feasible with the size of your bed or couch. If the receiving partner has a penis, the giver might choose to lie beside them for maximum comfort, says Gunsaullus. Trying this position during cunnilingus? The receiver might also want to try keeping their legs closed together once their partner is firmly in place, says Laino.
This technique is similar to the last one, but provides a twist for the receiver. If the receiver enjoys multiple kinds of stimulation at once, the giver can try focusing on their clitoris with their tongue, all while using fingers or a toy to hit their G-spot. Sick of staying horizontal? Try having the receiver sit in a chair or on the edge of a bed or couch with their giving partner kneeling in front of them. This is another classic position that works well for receivers with vulvas or penises, says Laino.
Here, the giving partner can once again fully control the depth and speed, and a seated position might also be easier on their jaw than something that involves lying down.
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If your shower has a seated area, you can also try this one there! This oral sex position puts the receiver in control. This is exactly the same as face-sitting, but with the receiving partner facing away from the giving partner.
