Well, not quite a coma, but close. Craigslist was involved initially. But now he comes by for weekly sessions of mutual head and leaves immediately afterward. His roundtrip on the subway lasts longer than his stays at my place.
He could be one of those younger guys who prefers older men, and bearish older guys could be his type. But I was still providing her with a lot of emotional support. This was fine until she started bothering me for advice on what to do about her rebound relationship.
This seemed beyond the call of duty, and I suggested to her that we needed to reevaluate our boundaries. She flipped out and has threatened to force all our mutual friends to pick her over me. Do I stick up for kinks or deny it and blame a vengeful ex? Shrug off the reveal; laugh along with any good-natured ribbing and look on the bright side: you could have mutual female friends who are interested in peggingβand, after they hear the news, interested in you.
I know you were raised Catholic but are now an atheist. Have you looked at Buddhism or Hinduism? And none, in my semi-informed opinion, stood up to scrutiny.
But if I was gonna pick a faith based on gayness alone, I would go with Antinous. He was the big gay lover of the big gay second-century Roman emperor Hadrian, the dude who built the wall that kept Mary Queen of Scots from sneaking into Roman Britain and stealing the scones of stones or something.
