I have a question about an activity I want to do with my wife of 16 years. Not long ago, I was using a rather large dildo on her. She was standing, which was not the normal way for us to do dildo play. Several times I removed the dildo completely and, when I did, there was a significant amount of clear fluid that came out.
It seemed like it would have been enough to fill a shot glass. I am sure it was not pee, and it turned me on incredibly. She let me drink it. I am very interested in doing this again, and all I know is that this was one of the most erotic things I have ever done.
I have asked her if she would pee in my mouth, but she's reluctant. Have you heard of this and do you have any comments? In my mind, there are two separate questions being asked here. The first is about female ejaculation, and the second is about incorporating urine into erotic play, which is often called watersports or piss play. It is likely that the clear fluid that you saw was female ejaculate, which sometimes appears when a woman's G-spot is stimulated. Many sex educators believe that the G-spot is actually a collection of glands surrounding the urethra that is sometimes called the urethral sponge.
These glands are analogous to the prostate gland in men. Like the prostate, the urethral sponge becomes engorged with fluid during sexual arousal, and if these glands are stimulated, some women will release ejaculate from the urethra. Stay on top of the news of the day Subscribe to our free, daily e-newsletter to get Milwaukee's latest local news, restaurants, music, arts and entertainment and events delivered right to your inbox every weekday, plus a bonus Week in Review email on Saturdays.
Because most of us are not taught that women can ejaculate, some women who release fluid through the urethra during sex are afraid that they've urinated. You're correct when you didn't think it was urine; from what we know, female ejaculate is similar to fluid produced by the prostate, and there's no harm in drinking it, the same way that there's no harm in ingesting semen, as long as the people involved are free of sexually transmitted infections.
