An open relationship can mean sex with other people or additional romantic relationships. So, what would you do if your spouse suggests this route?
I wonder, what could openness in the marriage be representing? Emotional intimacy, sexual desires, an exploration of the self, social stimulation? Being curious about each other and having a shared meaning will encourage ongoing open, honest communication.
Mutual respect is a core prerequisite to a healthy open relationship. Equally, share your deepest fears and concerns. Emotional safety is another area of importance. Do you want to be able to call your partners to chat, text each other or go on dates? Do you share details about your marital relationship?
How much time or money will be allocated to spend with partners and on activities? If these can be shared with your spouse then you stand a better chance of maintaining a deep, empathic connection and shared vulnerability, which prioritises your marital partner and the relationship you share. If these feelings are left to fester, the damage can be irreparable. If you are considering an open relationship, there is an abundance of resources online, books, communities and relationship therapists that will help you to make an empowered decision.
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