Cookies are required for login or registration. Please read and agree to our cookie policy to continue. I wish I could say this was my first trip to SI. This is now my second go around. The first time was with my ex-husband, he had an affair of a few weeks that I discovered.
We tried to work it out but got divorced a few years later. Now I'm back. He travels a lot for work. When he got home from this latest trip, he was acting oddly. He told me it was jetlag which made sense as he traveled over 4 time zones in 12 days, working hour days. Yesterday, he came out of the bedroom and told me while he was shaking that he really fucked up.
I immediately knew and asked him if he cheated on me and he said yes. He told me he slept with one of his client's contacts it's a big corporation, and this person is a rep on the last night of the trip.
I am so overwhelmed right now. Honestly, I think he did it because his business is taking off for the first time and he wants to be unencumbered with responsibilities. Another part of me thinks he just really fucked up.
I don't even know what I want. Before this trip we were building a life together. I bought a home large enough to accommodate his home office much larger than what I wanted and renovated for his needs. We were talking about getting married we are all but married, registered domestic partners and all of the paperwork. And now I feel like I just had the rug pulled out from under me.
