Menu Skip to content Home About. Search for:. As crawling gives way to toddling and then striding, so does every relationship that would stand the test of time!
It is like a child moving more steadily through the physical world, un-perturbed by the unknown rough pathway ahead, but determined to thrive. Our relationship with others should always crave for improvements and ability to reject being the ultimate mentalist! Or self-appointed mind-readers we think we are. Only if we make room for acceptance.
Should we allow our minds to navigate deeper into the cross-currents of the broader social world while we struggle with our differences? Is there really a perfect mate? And for people who have given up on searching or loving, should there exist a fundamental difficulty in trusting again? So, here I am today, August 14 th , exactly 20 years ago my ever so-loving-Father walked me down the hallway of The Marriage registry at City Hall Lagos, into the arms of the one true love I would ever encounter!
The same bespectacled-guy I met 3. From the misconception of what the romantic novels we read say about marriages, to the soap operas and knowledge based books or audio we tune to! Their wisdom, your wisdom and my own wisdom are limited. And while the implementation of earthly wisdom can and often does bring some benefit, it will not always lead us to the safety and ease we long for deep inside. I know right? I usually ask myself too lol.
It leads my heart, mind, and soul to safety and rest in a world that is filled with scary realities and uncertainties. You just have to name the challenges… We have both walked through it together…24 years and counting. We will be at ease with all imperfections. Not with perfect lives, but with lives that are led and not controlled by fear and anxiousness of what tomorrow would bring in their marriages, relationships, courtship or friendship.
